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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Women seek 33% Reservation, Not 33% Respect from Men



Women have been always shown Respect in the Indian Society,You will  know the real sense about this when you see the social position of Indian women.It is sad that even today the number of dowry deaths and all kinds of harassment on women are so high. Last night i have gone through  a news channel where it telecast about a dowry harassment victim.Due to the un-fulfillment of demands of dowry, many women die at the hands of their in-laws.Can't we do something about this 
A Survey has reported that one day the growth rate of crimes against women would be higher than the India's population growth rate, and this has become true at the present scenario. you wonder with your level of  distress  when you list down the crimes against women,Sexual harassment,dowry, Child marriage,Female infanticide and sex selective abortions,,Domestic violence,trafficking.... From my personal experience I know that  harassment is wide spread in every sphere of life in India, including each and every sector. If you venture out in public life, in more competitive corporate career in India you can expect a far worse situation.i have never seen any young women in  India walking freely in any public place, public transport and so on..... Everyone in this world is on some kind of guard.

To understand the impact of sexual harassment or the other crime on women, one must listen to the account of its victims as no  one conveys the meaning and truth of sexual harassment better than the woman who have endured it. what kind of emotional response does eve teasing / sexual harassment evoke in you?? 
A question wanders in my mind, will men respect women in general?? Do men pity women in general, because of our vulnerabilities?? or Do men have a certain hard -to- explain admiration for women at times and pity other times? what can a woman do to get and earn man's respect  in most cases? a Lot of men speak in a condescending way towards and about all the women... Men view women very   differently than themselves. that difference in view doesn't mean that they don't respect women(or that they do either) it is just different!!

I have seen many women who pamper their sons a lot and discriminate the girl child, which finally lead their sons  to be a male chauvinist. Good Parenting will solve all the social problems......

P.s:  I am not supporting women here, i am just trying to keep the respect for them

Friday, July 22, 2011

Some people misunderstand me...that's because they don't know me at all:


I get distressed when people misunderstand me and stops talking, I feel that Misunderstanding is one of the most common reasons why relationships end. It Drives me insane when i see people yelling and screaming over some crap which is not at all true, they just believe every small thought b'cos they misunderstood..

ITS an unbearable thing in my life. Its strange how people become uncommunicable and how misunderstanding causes them to go from love to strong hatred for u.

wateva...It may be .......... I just can't Stop Loving you people!!!

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Delhi tour

Delhi Tour.....

Ambience Mall- Truly does Justice to what it says, it's a huge Mall. The first time i ws there, the fashion mall left me spellbound. With almost every brand available, makes everyones life easier. Its a nice place to hang-out. The sheer size will make everyone notice this place while to travel on the Vasant Kunj Main Road, Truly it shud not be given a miss.

This Ambience Mall has two big anchor stores,awesome place to hang-out if u really love roaming around and gud eatouts even.


DLF Emporio, the most Luxurious shopping Destination, unprecedented collection of the finest and rarest in life. it offered a splendid shopping experience like no other. we have njoied 4 levels of exclusive shopping Me in Harley Davidson Showroom, and thats enuf for me to njoi . The Whole sunday has been filled with fun and masti by watching Fashion freaks and spicejets(!!) at the Mall.

GURUDWARA BANGLA SAHIB
its near Connaught place, the golden dome was depicts the real essence. Visited bare footed, covering head, entered the main hall inside is simple and welcoming, a complete devotional feeling  has been filled in me. coming out and taking the Prasad( Langar), i proceed to the pond called Sarovar which was beside the Temple looking so clear. The main important thing that attracted me was the Voluntary labor of Devotees and peoples contributions which was leading to the total cleaness of the premises.It is  very difficult to imagine  that such a peaceful place exists right next to the busy roads with heavy mad traffic. But finally after coming out th e place i felt the truth in it.

 
LOTUS TEMPLE
Visiting the Replica of the Opera House - Lotus temple place of worship, gave me an immense pleasure and due respect to the Bahai worship, serving people of all religions withput ant restrictions  We are not allowed to worship our god without any inhibitions and disturbances. it has nine ponds in and around to njoi. It's a nice place to meditate and to boost up yourself when you are morally down.




India Gate
It's a real treat to watch the India gate in the Night when all the lights are lighted.It is the place where innumerous people visit daily. A feeling of Being an Indian  Made me so Proud that i could not spellout the xperience.
Qutub Minar
Its an historical place , entry to the Steps is prohibited. So there was a disappointment for me and i could njoi to the fullest as there ws no crowd on that odd day.Gone through all the Stone mounted Notices and felt hte historical traditions.

Sarojini Nagar Market
its a posh South Delhi's Market, the most sought after place in delhi from where you can buy all the Day to day Items. you can get the stylist items here for a very cheaper rate. Now i am very confident that even i can bargain to the 1/10th of the price that the seller first tells as an original Price. Visited this place for 2 times within 5 days. for the second visit i felt that if anyone has a nose fo shopping and can bargain , it is the right place for you guys.the Crux of the market attracts every one with varied list of items, it's a cheap fashion market. You can find lot of chiks here buying al the posh items. even you can savor the hot indian food items and the market GK M and N block are the most romantic places to visit if you really love hanging out.

Thursday, December 23, 2010

EMOTIONAL ATYACHAAR


Last Nite when I was scrolling the channels in my television, I came across a programme Emotional Atyachar on UTV Bindass. I was shocked with the way they are projecting the obscene acts of people. These people can do anything and can go to any extent to increase their TRPs, This programme is even worse than the “Sach ka samna”!! Seriously it redefines sadistic Voyeurism to a new height.

This show has crossed all the limits of sanity..Thriving on negativity, abusive language, inhuman behavior, uncivilized life styles and uncouth manners. To me It is not a reality show but it’s a commercial posing as a drama mainly concerned about their profits rather than the Quality of content.

To my greatness, the show will be telecasted at 7 Pm on Friday; does u think that is the pat time for the show of this kind??


One day some suicide case will happen, then they gonna definitely stop the production

On a whole EMOTIONAL ATYACHAAR- is a no constraint show, a soft emotional pornography



It reminds me of my friend who says life is after all a compromise most of the time .While crying in front of the camera is better than breaking down in front of your partner

Thursday, November 18, 2010

DeePavali


 We all decked out in flowing and glittering outfits on the Indian festival of lights. This year marked the first time I enjoyed at this new place; there was a nice turnout for the festival at least from my side


To be a part of this Diwali celebrations we have come up with different things, which surely helped us in making one's Diwali a never forgotten affair.

In the beginning, I thought of illuminating with Rocket, but it had enlightened me that a safe diwali is so important, it really brought fun and togetherness for us. It is heartening to see everyone busy in fireworks, adding to the sparkling festivity and lighten up the sky at night. That was a visual delight. That night was really awesome with ear deafening bombs.


Finally the Splendor of this diwali is so great, that it had a sweet memory for us.